Do you think trans identity and sexuality are connected? We asked, and our community answered! Sexuality and gender identity are personal, but they’re also connected in ways that shape how we experience relationships, attraction, and intimacy. For a lot of trans and non-binary folks, gender transition can shift how we understand our sexuality, while for others, that part of our identity stays the same. There’s no single experience, and that’s exactly why we wanted to ask our community about it.
We recently ran a survey to explore how trans people experience and define their sexuality. Our goal? To highlight the real, diverse ways our community navigates love, sex, and relationships—because these conversations deserve space, too.
What We Asked
We wanted to know things like:
- Has your romantic or sexual attraction changed during your gender transition journey?
- How do you identify your romantic or sexual attraction?
- Do you always check or know your STI/STD status and risk before engaging in sexual activity?
- As a trans person, do you exclusively seek romantic or sexual relationships with other trans folks?
What We Learned About Trans Sexuality
We received over 2,800 responses! The answers showed just how varied trans experiences with sexuality really are. Some people found that their attraction changed as they transitioned, while others said their feelings remained the same. When it comes to safer sex practices, a significant number of folks prioritize knowing their STI/STD status before engaging in sexual activity. And when we asked about T4T attraction, responses ranged from an enthusiastic yes to more nuanced perspectives, proving once again that there’s no one-size-fits-all experience when it comes to love and relationships in the trans community. Check out the results:
Why This Matters
Trans people are often left out of mainstream conversations about sexuality, attraction, and sexual health. But our experiences are real, and they deserve attention and space. By sharing these insights, we hope to foster more conversations, challenge assumptions, and make space for the full spectrum of sexuality among trans people.
At the end of the day, there’s no “right” way to experience attraction or build relationships as a trans person—only what feels right for you. Thanks to everyone who participated in this survey for helping us reflect the reality of our community, in all its complexity and beauty.
